Christmas Wishes: 64 Messages for Cards, Texts and Family

Christmas wishes for family, friends, a partner, coworkers and people far away: short ones, warm ones, funny ones and religious ones, ready to copy.

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Below are 64 Christmas card messages, sorted by who they are for and the tone you want. Copy one as it is, or use it as a starting point and make it yours.

The Christmas messages people keep are the ones that sound like you. Start with “Merry Christmas”, then add one line only you could write: the thing you did together this year, the joke from last December, or what you miss about them.

Short Christmas wishes

For a gift tag, the bottom of a photo, or a quick WhatsApp on the morning.

  • Merry Christmas! Wishing you a slow, happy day.
  • Peace, love and far too many mince pies. Merry Christmas.
  • Wishing you a cosy Christmas and a bright new year.
  • Merry Christmas from our home to yours.
  • May your Christmas be merry and your fridge be full.
  • Thinking of you this Christmas. Have a lovely day.
  • Warmest wishes for a wonderful Christmas.
  • Merry Christmas! Thank you for being in my year.

For family

Parents, siblings, grandparents: thank them for something specific from this year.

  • Merry Christmas, Mum and Dad. Every good Christmas memory I have started in your kitchen.
  • To my brother, who still wakes everyone up too early on Christmas morning: never stop.
  • Merry Christmas to the family who make the noise, the food and the memories.
  • Grandma, Christmas tastes like your cooking and sounds like your laugh. Merry Christmas.
  • However far we are from each other, Christmas brings us back to the same table. Love you all.
  • Merry Christmas, sis. Thank you for being my partner in crime since the year we broke the tree.
  • To the best parents anyone could ask for: thank you for every Christmas you made magic.
  • Merry Christmas to my favourite people. This year I’m doing the washing up. Probably.

For friends

Friends are the family you pick. Make it warm, and a little silly.

  • Merry Christmas to the friend who made this year bearable and occasionally brilliant.
  • Here’s to another year of voice notes, bad films and good talks. Merry Christmas.
  • You are the best present I got this year. Don’t let it go to your head. Merry Christmas.
  • Merry Christmas! Let’s finally make that plan in January. I mean it this time.
  • To my chosen family: thank you for every laugh. Have the best Christmas.
  • Merry Christmas to the only person who knows exactly what I mean when I say “that party”.
  • Wishing you a Christmas as kind as you are, which is very.
  • Merry Christmas, friend. Same time next year, and every year after.

For a partner

Your first Christmas together or your twentieth: say what this one means.

  • My favourite Christmas present is waking up next to you. Merry Christmas, my love.
  • All I want for Christmas is you, and maybe the last chocolate. Mostly you.
  • Our first Christmas together. I hope it’s the first of very many.
  • Merry Christmas to the person who makes every season feel like home.
  • Every Christmas with you is better than the one before. I love you.
  • Under the mistletoe or not, you’re still my favourite. Merry Christmas.
  • Thank you for this year, and for every year to come. Merry Christmas, darling.
  • You make the lights brighter and the cold warmer. Merry Christmas.

For coworkers, clients and your boss

Warm but professional. One line of thanks goes further than a paragraph.

  • Merry Christmas and thank you for a great year of working together.
  • Wishing you and your family a restful Christmas and a happy new year.
  • Thank you for your support this year. Enjoy a well-earned break. Season’s greetings.
  • Merry Christmas to the best team I could ask for. See you in the new year.
  • Wishing you a peaceful Christmas and every success in the year ahead.
  • Thank you for making the hard weeks easier. Have a wonderful Christmas.
  • Season’s greetings, and our best wishes for a happy and healthy new year.
  • Merry Christmas! Switch off your laptop. That’s an order from a colleague.

For someone far away

For family abroad, a friend who moved, or anyone spending Christmas apart.

  • Miles apart, but you’re at the table in spirit. Merry Christmas.
  • Different time zone, same Christmas wish: I miss you and I love you.
  • Merry Christmas from this side of the world. Next year, let’s share the same tree.
  • This card is standing in for a very long hug. Merry Christmas.
  • Your chair is empty but your stocking is still up. Merry Christmas, we miss you.
  • Sending Christmas love across the miles. Call me when you open this.
  • The distance is long, but Christmas is short. Let’s video call and eat cake at the same time.
  • Merry Christmas. Wherever you are, I hope it feels like home.

Funny Christmas messages

Keep it kind. The joke is about Christmas, not about them.

  • Merry Christmas! I got you a card. The present is me remembering.
  • May your Christmas be as full as your plate on the second helping.
  • Santa says you’ve been mostly good. I said that was generous.
  • Wishing you a Christmas free of tangled lights and family arguments about board games.
  • Merry Christmas! Calories don’t count this week. Science.
  • This year I’m giving you the gift of not singing to you. You’re welcome.
  • Merry Christmas to my favourite person to fall asleep on the sofa next to at 4 p.m.
  • Here’s to Christmas jumpers we will deny owning by February.

Religious Christmas wishes

For someone who keeps Christmas as a holy day.

  • May the peace of Christ fill your home this Christmas.
  • Wishing you the joy of the season and the blessings of the newborn King.
  • May the light of Christmas guide you through the year ahead.
  • Rejoice! Unto us a child is born. Merry Christmas and God bless.
  • Praying for peace, health and joy for you and your family this Christmas.
  • May the love that came down at Christmas stay with you all year.
  • Wishing you a blessed Christmas, full of hope, faith and love.
  • Glory to God in the highest, and peace to you and your house. Merry Christmas.

Three things that make it land

  1. Write the second line first. “Merry Christmas” takes care of itself. Spend your time on the line after it: one memory, one thank-you or one wish that fits only them.
  2. Pick a photo from this year. The family photo by the tree, the group at the restaurant, the dog in a hat. A recent picture makes the card feel like it was made for them.
  3. Time it for the morning. A card that opens at 7 a.m. on 25 December, in their time zone, lands before the day gets busy.

Send it as a card that opens on Christmas morning

An online Christmas card is one link that opens on any phone: an envelope slides in, they tap it, and the card opens with your photo and message. Set the date to 25 December and it waits behind a countdown until Christmas morning in their time zone. See the Christmas card designs. It is free, and there is nothing to install.